he ain't heavy, he...

- is a pain where the sun don't shine at times;
- deserves a smack in the head for being an ass;
- knows he's an asshole, admits being one but still is one;
- is the love of my life & i will do anything for him.

we just celebrated our sixteenth anniversary of becoming mr & mrs. it started out alright but just as we were getting ready to go out for dinner, he & the daughter got into a little tiff. we went ahead with our dinner plains albeit the sombre mood & the 'twenty sen' face. not entirely resolved, they are still giving each other the cold shoulder treatment. this too shall pass....

had lunch with a friend today & she was telling me stories about her other half & a mutual friend's hubby. how both the guys are possessive about their wives. about how they cannot go out with their friends that the hubbys don't approve of (but the men can go out with whomever they want). about how they men would freak out when they call the wives & the women don't answer on the first ring. about how the mutual friend had to cut short her biz trip just cos her hubby 'merajuk' when she didn't answer his call cos she was working.

when i hear stories like this, i am glad i married the man i married. sixteen years with this man with its fair share of good times, bad times & times when i just ask 'why me?' - i am thankful to god for him. he may be a pain at times but nothing like me telling him 'f off' won't fix....